Polyamory Polygamy, Hippie Communes & New Age Cults by EFT Sex-pert Alina Frank

I’ve been thinking about writing this article for at least four years now. Recent Facebook posts, written by several “sex positive” groups that I belong to, finally got me riled up enough to take the time to put my thoughts to the proverbial paper. But first let me start with a story. In the late… Read More »

Six Strategies to Re-Connect to Your Lover

Everybody needs meaningful connections in their lives. Yet our modern society is moving towards less primary relationships and more tertiary ones. In the home, couples are also finding less quality time with each other due to various demands on them, including children, aging parents, finances, keeping a home in order and/or social involvement. At the… Read More »

Gosh darn it, I don’t want a good relationship!

I don’t want a “good relationship,” as many relationship coaches would tell me to get…. I want a fantastic, outrageous, over-the-top connected soulmate-earthmate relationship. Why would I settle in my romantic partnership? I haven’t settled in the past. I didn’t get a “day” job when I got divorced as other people thought I should. I… Read More »

When Ending a Relationship Feels Like a Kick in the Stomach

  Yesterday I worked with a client who was struggling with whether to end his relationship with his long time partner. He wanted help clarifying what aspects of their relationship problems he should take responsibility for and what pieces were truly the responsibility of his partner. The future of their relationship was in limbo and… Read More »

How To Choose The Right Relationship Coach

Will you choose to no longer be held hostage by your personal core issue and let it corrupt your relationship problem? Will your long held wounded influences of the past determine when to end it, when to end your relationship that is. Choosing the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) as your modality is a first brave… Read More »

Get Rid of Him Already, What Are You Waiting For?

Procrastination is one bad habit that it’s a good idea to break. This is very important if a relationship breakup is involved and it is clear that you have tried everything possible to heal your relationship first. If you have been through couples counseling and tried innumerable retreats, workshops, self-help and together-help books and for… Read More »

Get Rid Of SAD Holidays Once And For All

Most people look forward to the holiday season. For many, it’s the religious significance, for as many, it’s the first snowfall, the opening of brightly wrapped presents, and even when they get to pretend it’s an accident when they bump into someone under the mistletoe. There are those, however, who feel sad and lonely even… Read More »

What Is The Real Issue in My Broken Relationship?

It is important to identify what is called a  core issue. That is true when trying to resolve any personal issue, be it in a relationship or some other situation,  in order to know when to end it or how to end it. Especially if it’s been holding you back from enjoying inner balance, health,… Read More »

How To Tap Your Pain Away

It’s acupuncture for the emotions. Instead of needles on acupoints, Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) uses rapid tapping of the finger on the face and upper body together with statements describing a specific detail of your problem. You might describe how you feel ( ie angry, sad, hurt) about the problem or how it affects you… Read More »

What To Do When He’s Happy Without You

The loss of a loved one who remains very much alive and well, and happy without you, can feel worse than if that loved one died. Added to the toxic soup of the normal feelings of loss and grief, is the intense sense of worthlessness from being rejected for another, and the pain of helplessness… Read More »