Polyamory Polygamy, Hippie Communes & New Age Cults by EFT Sex-pert Alina Frank

I’ve been thinking about writing this article for at least four years now. Recent Facebook posts, written by several “sex positive” groups that I belong to, finally got me riled up enough to take the time to put my thoughts to the proverbial paper. But first let me start with a story. In the late… Read More »

Six Strategies to Re-Connect to Your Lover

Everybody needs meaningful connections in their lives. Yet our modern society is moving towards less primary relationships and more tertiary ones. In the home, couples are also finding less quality time with each other due to various demands on them, including children, aging parents, finances, keeping a home in order and/or social involvement. At the… Read More »

Gosh darn it, I don’t want a good relationship!

I don’t want a “good relationship,” as many relationship coaches would tell me to get…. I want a fantastic, outrageous, over-the-top connected soulmate-earthmate relationship. Why would I settle in my romantic partnership? I haven’t settled in the past. I didn’t get a “day” job when I got divorced as other people thought I should. I… Read More »

When Ending a Relationship Feels Like a Kick in the Stomach

  Yesterday I worked with a client who was struggling with whether to end his relationship with his long time partner. He wanted help clarifying what aspects of their relationship problems he should take responsibility for and what pieces were truly the responsibility of his partner. The future of their relationship was in limbo and… Read More »

How To Choose The Right Relationship Coach

Will you choose to no longer be held hostage by your personal core issue and let it corrupt your relationship problem? Will your long held wounded influences of the past determine when to end it, when to end your relationship that is. Choosing the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) as your modality is a first brave… Read More »

How To Tap Your Pain Away

It’s acupuncture for the emotions. Instead of needles on acupoints, Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) uses rapid tapping of the finger on the face and upper body together with statements describing a specific detail of your problem. You might describe how you feel ( ie angry, sad, hurt) about the problem or how it affects you… Read More »

5 Tips For Saying Goodbye to Breakup Grief

Grief is one of the most difficult emotions to resolve. And there are many layers of grief. Grief occurs after a person faces a tragic event in his/her life. This tragedy may be due to the unexpected ending of a relationship as in a break-up, divorce, or death of a loved one. If you are… Read More »

Your Troubled Relationship: When to End It

“Any troubled relationship has a chance,” you might say. But that’s all it gets—a chance. If the partner in the relationship is abusive or controlling, it might not be worth saving, which is why there are such things as divorce and annulment. Now I’m not saying that you should just walk away from any sign… Read More »

5 Mistakes to Avoid in EFT in Dealing With a Rocky Relationship

In a relationship that’s turned rocky, when you ask a question that includes the words “when to end it” it’s crucial that you make the right decision. As an emotional freedom techniques (EFT) coach, I recommend EFT tapping to help people free themselves of emotional burdens and make the right choice. Effective as it is,… Read More »

Healing from the Wounds of Separation

When dark clouds gather in your relationship with your partner, your first reaction would be to see if the problem can be resolved. You don’t simply ask when to end it, just like that. You hope you can save your partnership while there’s still a chance. However, some unions just aren’t meant to last and… Read More »